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Vows, weddings, Modern Love and more. Share your love story with us.

Vows, weddings, Modern Love and more. Share your love story with us.

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  1. Vows

    A Festival Booking Turned Into a Love Story

    After Sarah Potenza, a former contestant on “The Voice,” took the stage at an L.G.B.T.Q. music festival that Kat Donavon helped to organize, neither expected their business connection to turn romantic.

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    Kathleen Donavon, left, and Sarah Potenza were married Oct. 4 at Owen Farm in Chapmansboro, Tenn. Abby Rubenfeld, center, a civil rights lawyer whose lawsuit helped bring Tennessee into the Supreme Court case that legalized gay marriage, officiated.
    CreditStacie Huckeba
  1. At Some Weddings, Centerpieces Are Ripe for the Picking

    As couples shift away from floral arrangements, seasonal produce, like figs, pomegranates and lemons, is moving in.

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    Melissa and Matt Merlino of New York made the most of the abundant fruits in Kona, Hawaii, where they held their wedding in January 2024. They worked with Kate Hickey, a wedding planner for Sunshower Weddings.
    CreditCalen Rose
    Field Notes
  2. An Intimate Wedding Onstage in Front of Thousands

    The Grammy-winning musician Lucy Dacus oversaw the marriage of nine couples in the middle of a set at the “All Things Go” music festival on Friday.

     By Madison Malone Kircher and

    Ms. Dacus officiated two of the nine marriages.
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  3. For Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, a Wedding Fit for a ‘Disney Princess’

    From her dramatic veil to her classic gown, the actress and singer was every bit a fairy tale bride at a private ceremony in Santa Barbara, Calif.

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    Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco were married Saturday at Sea Crest Nursery in Santa Barbara, Calif. The couple announced their wedding in a series of Instagram posts from both of their accounts.
    CreditDanny Moloshok/Invision, via Associated Press
  4. Mini-Vows Submission Form: Apply Here to Have Your Wedding Featured

    You may also have questions about how this process works. We have answers.

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    Credit L. R. Legwin/Hulton Archive, via Getty Images

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Mini-Vows

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  1. From Reality TV Drama to Celebrating Love and Unity

    For Richard Chang and Victoria Abbyaeva, appearing on Netflix’s “Bling Empire: New York” was their biggest obstacle as a couple. Their wedding showed how resilient they have become.

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    CreditOlga Prudka
  2. A Slow and Steady, ‘Good Old-Fashioned’ Courtship

    Ashley Erling and Joshua Martin met on a double date with their best friends. Then they took a couple of weeks to go on another.

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    CreditMolly Slater
  3. From Fifth Grade to Forever

    Rebecca Erdman and Christopher White have been an item since their senior year of high school, with one critical six-month break along the way.

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    CreditMarc Patrick
  4. A Promise She Was Happy to Break

    Adrienne Tarver had told herself she would never date a fellow artist. Then she met Jason Karolak, an abstract painter, on an art gallery crawl.

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    CreditInbal Sivan Photography
  5. A Romantic First Date? Depends on Whom You Ask.

    Corey Paris, a state representative in Connecticut, and Symphonie Privett, a TV anchor, met at a fund-raiser. He saw a romantic connection. She wasn’t so sure.

     By

    CreditNorman Oates Photography

Modern Love

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  1. Tiny Love Stories: ‘I Might’ve Cast a Love Spell’

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

     

    CreditBrian Rea
  2. Malala Yousafzai Thought She’d Never Fall in Love

    The global activist gets candid in her new memoir. She spoke with us about struggling with panic attacks, finding her personal style and changing her mind about what marriage could be.

     By Anna MartinReva GoldbergEmily LangDavis LandChristina DjossaAmy PearlSara CurtisElisa GutierrezJen PoyantLynn LevyDaniel RamirezDan PowellRowan Niemisto and

    CreditPhoto Illustration by The New York Times; Background: Brian Rea; Inset photo: Robyn Beck/Agence France-Presse — Getty Images
  3. Negotiating the End of Us

    My husband kept saying he was going to die at a young age, but we could never agree on an acceptable number.

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    CreditBrian Rea
  4. Tiny Love Stories: ‘Even Painful Things Can Heal’

    Modern Love in miniature, featuring reader-submitted stories of no more than 100 words.

     

    CreditBrian Rea
  5. Tessa Thompson on Finding What You Want (What You Really, Really Want)

    In Thompson’s latest film, she plays an unhappy housewife who blows up her life. In reality, the actor and producer has left relationships with much less fallout.

     By Anna MartinReva GoldbergDavis LandChristina DjossaAmy PearlSara CurtisElisa GutierrezEmily LangJen PoyantLynn LevyDaniel RamirezDan PowellPat McCuskerElisheba IttoopMarion Lozano and

    CreditPhoto Illustration by The New York Times; Background: Brian Rea; Inset photo: Charles Sykes/Invision, via Associated Press

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Vows

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  1. A Festival Booking Turned Into a Love Story

    After Sarah Potenza, a former contestant on “The Voice,” took the stage at an L.G.B.T.Q. music festival that Kat Donavon helped to organize, neither expected their business connection to turn romantic.

     By

    Kathleen Donavon, left, and Sarah Potenza were married Oct. 4 at Owen Farm in Chapmansboro, Tenn. Abby Rubenfeld, center, a civil rights lawyer whose lawsuit helped bring Tennessee into the Supreme Court case that legalized gay marriage, officiated.
    CreditStacie Huckeba
  2. Breaking News Interrupted Their Date, but Not Their Connection

    As the senior political correspondent for ABC News, Rachel Scott has to be ready at a moment’s notice to cover a big story. Elliott Smith proved early on that he wouldn’t hesitate to do whatever it took to help her.

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    Rachel Scott, the senior political correspondent for ABC News, and Elliott Smith were married Sept. 6 at the Bella Vista Estate in Santa Barbara, Calif.
    CreditVictoria Gold
  3. A Milliner and a Businessman Met in Mexico, Fell in Love in New York

    It was through hats and a cousin that Mariela Osorio and David Gochicoa met at a pop-up. Two months later, they had their first date.

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    Mariela Osorio and David Gochicoa were married on Aug. 23 at the Basilica of St. Patrick’s Old Cathedral in Manhattan.
    CreditAndrés Linares
  4. The Fishwife Becomes a Musician’s Wife

    Becca Millstein and Pete Martin met while working in a mailroom years before she founded a popular tinned fish company and his music career took off.

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    Pete Martin and Becca Millstein celebrated their wedding on June 7 at Green Valley Farm + Mill in Sonoma County, Calif.
    CreditJayden Becker
  5. The Spooky Wedding of Her Dreams (or Nightmares)

    Hadley Mendelsohn, a horror and true crime aficionado, and Charles Lewis met while both were spending the early weeks of the pandemic in Florida. Each took a leap of faith.

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    Hadley Mendelsohn and Charles Lewis were married Sept. 6 at the Straus Home Ranch in Marshall, Calif.
    CreditMichelle Pullman

Field Notes

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  1. The Bride Wore Love Letters and Family Photos

    One-of-a-kind gowns incorporating personal writing, photographs, even 3-D elements are making for wearable art.

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    “Color makes me feel alive,” said Megan Marie Brooks, who married last year in a gown by Canvas Bridal. “I was a giant human rainbow.”
    CreditAlexsandra Wiciel
  2. Ceremony, Cocktail Hour and … 30 Minutes of Alone Time?

    Young, introverted brides and grooms are factoring in time for solo decompression during their weddings to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

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    Elisse and Jared Woods, who married last July in Maine, each took solo breaks during their wedding to decompress. Experts say short pauses can help calm the nervous system for those feeling anxious or overwhelmed.
    CreditEmily Delamater Photography
  3. They Were Joined in Matrimony. Then They (Sometimes) Joined the Club.

    Many membership clubs are allowing nonmembers to rent space for weddings, in hopes of recruiting new members.

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    Sam and Jasmine Flaxman had their wedding last December at the Savile Club in London, a private club for men who work in the arts. They may never go inside again.
    CreditTaylor-Hughes Photography
  4. The Rise of the Little White Dress

    The bridal mini that was made popular in the 1960s is returning to aisles and reception venues.

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    CreditJose Villa; Victoria Gold; John Downing/Hulton Archive, via Getty Images
  5. For a Unique Venue, Look No Further Than Your Childhood Home

    Hosting a wedding at home can save money, but it will require careful planning and organization.

     By

    Hailey and Drew Hanks were married last September in the backyard of her childhood home in Richland, Wash.
    CreditAimee Dianne Photography

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Unhitched

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  1. They Were Once ‘Hippie vs. Soviet.’ Now They’re the Best of Friends.

    “We genuinely like each other,” Alex Yaroslavsky said of his ex-wife and co-parent, Liza Cooper. They even live in the same apartment building.

     By

    CreditChristopher DeLorenzo
  2. After Their Divorce, She Was ‘Best Man’ at His Second Wedding

    “We were best friends before and we are better friends now,” said Mike Mitchell, a sheriff’s deputy in Indiana, of his ex-wife Marissa Mitchell.

     By

    CreditMelek Zertal
  3. After the Divorce, a Different Kind of Family

    This couple survived tragedies during their relationship, but they couldn’t overcome tight finances and a drinking problem. Today, their love “is like that of brother and sister.”

     By

    CreditMartin Nicolausson
  4. To Fix a Broken Marriage, an Experiment With Polyamory

    After 10 years together, a Bay Area couple opened their relationship. But contrasting sexual needs led to a permanent split.

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    CreditLiv Garber
  5. After a Painful Split, a Functioning Family

    Rebecca and Drew Kuntz say they have had a healthier relationship since their five-year marriage ended.

     By

    CreditJill Senft

Self-Care

More in Self-Care ›
  1. How to Meditate When You Can’t Sit Still

    Closing your eyes and focusing on breathing can be hard for those who are easily distracted. But it is possible.

     By

    CreditFrancesco Ciccolella
  2. Feeling Dismissed? How to Spot ‘Medical Gaslighting’ and What to Do About It.

    Experts share tips on advocating for yourself in a health care setting.

     By

    CreditLucy Jones
  3. Can’t Talk, I’m Busy Being Hot

    A social media movement inspired by the rapper Megan Thee Stallion strikes back at the gatekeepers of beauty.

     By

    CreditZeloot
  4. You Can’t Outrun Athletic Greens

    In the oversaturated world of wellness, the company has forced itself to the front with prolific podcast ads and a network of influencers.

     By

    After more than a decade in business, the powdered supplement company Athletic Greens is becoming a household name.
    CreditJon Premosch for The New York Times
  5. The Worst Foods and Drinks for Your Teeth

    When assessing how likely a given meal, snack or drink is to harm your dental health, there are two main things to consider, experts say.

     By

    CreditKelsey McClellan for The New York Times

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  2. Mini-Vows

    They Planned Their Wedding in 3 Weeks

    Though they grew up just 10 blocks apart, Naim Bhuiyan and Anna Zhang never met until years later. When he proposed, he sent her a video via AirDrop of her parents giving their blessing.

    By Sadiba Hasan

     
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  5. Mini-Vows

    A Soul Mate Hidden in Plain Sight

    Nadine Santoro and Lena Wilson met online in 2016 and became close friends. Years later, they realized they were in love.

    By Anna Grace Lee

     
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  9. Mini-Vows

    They Bonded Over Chicken Parm

    Neither Jedidiah Pines nor Jeanette Settembre were looking for something serious, but on their second date, conversation flowed like Montepulciano wine, she said.

    By Shivani Vora

     
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